God Does Not Care About our Timing

Rewind: God does not care about our timing.

I am not so sure our five year plans impress Him too much. I’m not certain our sense of timing is too high on His list of concerns.

We want it today. “Today” for him is this century.

We tell him our game plan and sometimes imagine him thinking, “Wow, that is as BIG as you can dream.”

We look at things from our measly little perspective and think we can see it all. We can’t even see the tiniest sliver.

He on the other hand snickers. Sometimes I think he may even be saddened by our lack of trust in his timing.

Meanwhile, we go nuts worrying and fretting, point to our watch and looking up to the sky with open arms asking, “Where are you God?”

All the while he is saying, “I am right here,” but we are too busy to hear. Sure, he gave us brains and yes he wants us to set goals, but does this make Him our puppet when it comes to the when and how?

Paul spend three years in Arabia after a powerful encounter with God before his ministry would begin. Moses? How would you like forty years as a goat roper? Even Jesus spent thirty years “learning obedience” before beginning his public ministry. Our sense of timing is not that always as big of a deal to him. He cares way more about who we are becoming that what “work” we can provide.

And here we sit with our calendars and five year plans, pretending to tell the Creator of the Earth when to do things. Craziness.

Church leaders, take note, your church’s moment will come. Entrepreneurs, be patient and work hard. Parents, don’t be discouraged.
He knows what he is doing and has just a few years in us in the area of timing. Young people, do not fret!

So don’t you think it might be time to give up control? It is that time for me.

Love to hear your thoughts- why is it so difficult to trust in God’s timing?

Comments
  • Chrisann says:

    Such a good word, Chad. I love looking back over the last 29 years of marriage and marveling at God’s perfect timing in every way. Still learning to trust Him more – but I have journeyed forward. Loved his timing in putting us both on Mira Lago – even for a brief time. Love you guys.

    • Chad says:

      Thanks chrisann! We love you too!

      • Tina says:

        Thank you. Just the reminder I neeedd. My dear precious Uncle passed away 2 weeks ago today and I’m so struggling with this. There could have been a miracle, from our perspective there wasn’t and our hearts are broken. Many times in the last 14 days I have found myself doubting my faith because it doesn’t seem right that he is gone.This reminds me there was a miracle and we just haven’t seen it yet. Maybe the miracle was having him in our lives for far too brief a time. I don’t believe that yet, but this helps me see that in time I will.

  • Dan Bobke says:

    This post speaks to me in my job search. There is fear and impatience and such a feeling of failure. We strive to be in control and it is hard for us in our humanness to admit that we control very little.

    For my situation, it is hard to trust in God’s timing because the reality of financial trauma looms for my family. But I know that He will take me in the direction I need to go and put me in the place He needs me to be. The struggle is a daily one!

    • Chad says:

      Dan, wow. Crazy to rely on trusting in God, even when our families and finances are on the line. I have been there and been brought through it to the other side. Praying for some breakthrough for you!

  • Dionna says:

    Your “timing” was appropriate for me. I needed to read this and be reminded to stop fretting and simply trust God and His plans for me.

  • Jason says:

    Why is it so difficult? Because we desire to see forward motion because that equates with success for us. If we’re moving forward, if the ministry’s not growing, etc. then God apparently isn’t in it and that’s not what He wants us to do.

  • I sometimes wonder if God makes us wait so that he can teach us to recognize what is best for us. I think it was Garth Brooks who recorded a song about thanking God for unanswered prayers. In my impatience I sometimes will settle for something that is far less than God wants to do. Waiting, though difficult, though I complain through the wait, is best.

    • Chad says:

      Mark, great thought. Yeah, what we think is best and what God thinks is best are often too completely different things. Thanks for the comment.

  • Misty says:

    There is something to be said in the waiting rooms of life. It is so hard to wait. I was, just tonight, asking God why it was so hard, and was I waiting on something that was never going to come. He answered me with His presence so strong it surprised me. He was listening, even though it feels like He’s not. I am quickly reminded that God is sovereign…He has a plan and He is working it out. He says He loves me too much to give me less than His best. So it is true for all of us. We have to wait. And while we wait, we learn. We learn to trust more in our God who wants our highest desire to be Him, not whatever it is we are waiting for.

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